Keep Sex Till After Marriage
A man may sleep with you and still marry you, but that does not mean he loves you. It could mean that he enjoys sex with you and wants to keep you around for sexual satisfaction, while giving his love, time, money, attention and affection to the woman he romantically loves outside.
Also, a man may sleep with you and still marry you, but not because he loves you, but because he can't bear to have another man sleep with you. So he marries you and expects you to stay faithful to him, while he goes around sleeping with other women.
DON'T JOKE WITH UNSAVED MEN AND UNGODLY & CARNAL CHRISTIAN BROTHERS!
So when you're advised as a woman to embrace sexual purity and keep sex till after marriage, please listen, it's for your own good. We're not trying to prevent you from having fun or from getting married (because some ungodly men request for sex before marriage), no, we have your best interest at heart including God who gave the command in the first place.
As a child of God, listen to God and follow His instructions and obey His commandments and things will work well for you. Things start working against you - you meet disappointments, heart breaks and sorrows when you start copying the lifestyle of those who're not children of God, doing things the way they do things. Stay with God and copy Him; He is your Father.
"Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children." Ephesians 5:1
~ Precious Victor Akah