Sexual Purity - Kingdom Culture
To Citizens of Heaven
You are not supposed to be faithful to your spouse because it is a good thing to do.
You are supposed to be faithful to your spouse because that is your culture as a citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven.
You are not supposed to abstain from sex till marriage because it is a good thing to do. You are supposed to keep yourself till marriage because that is the culture of the Kingdom of Heaven. So if you keep yourself till marriage, it is actually not something you should brag about, it is what is expected of you in the Kingdom of God you belong - it is our Kingdom culture.
You are supposed to refrain from watching pornography, lusting, masturbating, watching sexually stimulating movies, TV shows, musical videos and comedies because it is an anomaly in the Kingdom of Heaven and not just because it's a healthy thing to do.
When a supposed Christian brother or sister is pressuring, persuading or attempting to have sex with you before marriage, it should immediately tell you that it is either they're not citizens of the Kingdom of Heaven or they're not living under the culture of the Kingdom of Heaven, meaning, they're not right for you as a bonafide and loyal citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven.
Sexual immorality is a culture of the world; so when a professing Christian is okay and comfortable living in sexual immorality, they may not be real citizens of the Kingdom of Heaven.
"Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God’s people." Ephesians 5:3
~ Precious Victor Akah