It is not: “If I marry the right person, I’ll be happy.” Your happiness should not depend on another person; otherwise, you risk spending your life feeling unhappy.
Instead, understand this truth: “If you are self-fulfilled, you are more likely to attract the right partner and enjoy a good marriage.”
Do you love yourself?
Are you content with who you are?
Are you satisfied with your life?
Are you truly happy and self-fulfilled, or do you believe that your future spouse—or even marriage itself—will bring you happiness and fulfillment?
It’s essential to love yourself fully.
You need to be self-fulfilled, whole, and possess a healthy sense of self-esteem and self-worth before entering into marriage if you genuinely wish to be happily married.
Don’t delay your happiness until you’re married. Many people who hoped for happiness through marriage or believed their spouse would always make them happy are not happy today.
So, choose to be happy now.
Find joy, happiness, and fulfillment in God through Jesus Christ. That is a solid foundation for lasting happiness.
It is the happiness you have right now that you'll take with you into marriage and have it multiplied. If you take unhappiness with you, that is what will be multiplied.
Shalom🤎
~Precious Victor Akah
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