Precious Victor Akah
HONORING GOD WITH YOUR BODIES
Having sex together before marriage to avoid cheating in marriage is an idea invented by the greatest trickster in existence: Satan.
He tells the two of you that the more you have sex together before marriage, the more it'll be difficult for you to cheat on each other in marriage... LIES!
If anything, he's actually teaching you both how to be comfortable having sex with who you're not married to, so that in marriage, when you both cannot have sex together for whatsoever reason, you can be comfortable having sex with someone else you're not married to (because he has built that ignoble (habit) in you before marriage).
He's also teaching you both by this ignoble act how to be intrepid to cheat on each other in marriage without guilt and shame when he presents the opportunity to one of you or the both of you.
An intending couple that is comfortably having sex before marriage is more likely going to have sex-related problems and face difficulty being faithful to each other in marriage.
Such couples may struggle with lust, adultery, masturbation, and pornography in their marriage. Beware!
Honor God with your bodies while courting so that you both can honor each other with your bodies in marriage.
"...We are not supposed to do indecent things with our bodies. We are to use them for the Lord who is in charge of our bodies." 1 Corinthians 6:13 CEV
~Precious Victor Akah