Marriage FIRST before sex, pregnancy and/or childbirth.
Judah met a lady, married her, then lay with her and she became pregnant and gave birth to a son for him (Genesis 38:1-3).
This is the order: marriage first before sexual intimacy. Marriage first before pregnancy. Marriage first before childbirth.
As a child of God, any man or lady that wants to selfishly rearrange this order to: sexual intimacy before marriage, pregnancy before marriage, or childbirth before marriage, is not RIGHT FOR YOU!
For the men, a desperate lady (with low self-esteem) who lacks knowledge of her true identity, worth and value can offer her body to you freely for sex and even offer to prove her fertility by getting pregnant or giving birth for you before marriage, please RUN from such LADY for the sake of your destiny and great future.
The blissful, peaceful and prosperous marriage and home you dearly desire cannot come from such union. Therefore, AVOID such desperate ladies at all cost.
For the ladies, please be aware that a supposed brother in church who approach you for marriage on such conditions: sex, pregnancy or childbirth before marriage, is either an unrepentant sinner or a carnal Christian with a carnal mind (the carnal mind is the mind that is dominated by selfishness; the mind that is self-willed, self-focused and self-seeking; the mind devoid of the ability to surrender wholeheartedly to God).
Do you honestly want to live with a man with such mind, for as long as you live on this earth? Do you really want to pledge to submit to his leadership for life and commit to loving and respecting him regardless? Think deeply about it, and I pray you lean towards the wisdom of the Holy Spirit in you and say NO to such.
You'll do yourself a great favour to choose a man or woman who values, respects, honor, and follow this order: Marriage FIRST before sex, pregnancy and childbirth.
I pray you marry the right man or woman for your destiny, and that your marriage will give you the joy, love, peace, prosperity, and rest you desire in Jesus' Name.
Shalom🤎
~Precious Victor Akah
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