WATCH HOW THEY TREAT PEOPLE

How someone treats others is a reflection of how they will ultimately treat you.

When selecting a life partner, look beyond mere affection. Choose someone who demonstrates love and kindness towards others (not only towards you), as this indicates a heart filled with genuine love. This is the love you can expect to receive throughout your marriage.

Avoid those who are only kind to you while being harsh or unkind to others. Such behavior reveals that their kindness is superficial. Over time, their true nature will emerge, and you will find yourself on the receiving end of their unkindness. Instead, seek someone who is consistently kind to everyone.

Additionally, be wary of people who shower you with gifts but are stingy with others. If they give to you without reluctance while withholding generosity from those around them, it reveals that their gifts may come with ulterior motives. Once their motives are fulfilled, their stinginess will extend to you. Look for someone who is open-handed and generous, not just with you but with everyone.

Finally, choose a partner who exhibits humility towards you while showing humility and respect to authorities and others. Humility that is only displayed in your presence may be disingenuous. Once they achieve their goal, such as marriage, their true pride will surface.

Be observant and mindful of how they interact with those around them. This is crucial, as you are marrying a person’s character, and you will live with that character. Never lose sight of this important truth.

Shalom🤎

~Precious Victor Akah