Having a clear vision for your future before entering into marriage is essential. It serves as a guiding principle that can help you choose a partner you'll always feel proud of, regardless of the societal status you may achieve in the years to come. When you marry someone with a shared vision for the future, you're laying the groundwork for a marriage relationship built on mutual respect, understanding, and growth.
It's important to remember that your current circumstances do not define your future potential. Marrying for who you are today may lead to regrets tomorrow. Instead, marry for the person you aspire to become and the journey you envision ahead.
As you make progress in life and your social standing elevates, you want to be confident and proud of your spouse, and not feeling embarrassed or ashamed of the person you married in public.
Consider this: if you were to wake up tomorrow as a president, despite being a cab driver today, would you still be proud of the person you married? Similarly, if you were to become the governor of your state while currently being a teacher, would you feel the same sense of pride in your partner? These scenarios emphasize the importance of marrying someone whose character, values, and aspirations align with your own vision for the future.
When choosing a life partner, look beyond the present moment. Seek someone who shares your dreams, ambitions, and values, and who is willing to grow alongside you. This forward-thinking approach to selecting a life partner ensures that your relationship is not just a reflection of who you are today but also a celebration of the journey you will embark on together in the future.
In essence, be futuristic in your thinking and decision-making when it comes to marriage. The person you choose to spend your life with should inspire you, challenge you, and support your aspirations as you navigate through life’s challenges and triumphs together. This careful consideration will help you build a strong, lasting marriage that thrives in all seasons.
Marry a person, not just for today, but for your future.
Shalom🤎
~Precious Victor Akah
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