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THE IRONY OF PREMARITAL SEX

Writer: Precious Victor AkahPrecious Victor Akah

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A man can finish having sex with you and then give you a hurtful slap the next moment, because for men, sex is merely physical fun and gratification.


Being sexually intimate with you does not mean that he loves you; it simply means you just met a need in his body.


Just as drinking water to quench your thirst doesn't imply that you're in love with water, engaging in sex doesn't demonstrate love either.


When a man says, "If you truly love me, prove it by having sex with me," giving in won’t prove anything. He may only interpret it as you being so obsessed with him that you're willing to compromise your values.


Even if you genuinely love him, it won’t convince him or motivate him to reciprocate your feelings if he doesn't already love you.


Many men have left women who have loved them deeply—women who demonstrated their love through their bodies, cohabitation, abortion, or even having children—only to marry someone they met just a few months later.


Don't become a victim of this mindset.


Sex cannot make a man love you.

Sex will not make a man marry you if he doesn't love you enough to have you as his life partner.


While some ladies may interpret having sex as a sign of commitment, it is important to recognize that it does not inherently signify commitment in any way.


Keep your body till marriage. It's still the noble thing to do.


Shalom🤎


~Precious Victor Akah


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