Keep your relationship holy if you want a holy marriage.
A holy relationship where sexual purity and righteousness is practiced will usually give birth to a marriage where sexual purity and righteousness is valued and practiced.
In the same vein, an unholy relationship where sexual immorality and unrighteousness (lying deceit, and the likes) is practiced - will also give birth to a problematic marriage where issues of sexual immorality, unfaithfulness, lying, deceit, dishonesty are constantly reoccurring.
As you make your bed, so you lie in it. Make your bed well, so you can lie comfortably in it with peace of mind.
I don't know of any man or woman who is peaceful, joyful and at rest living with a cheating and untruthful spouse.
Your home will be peaceful, joyful and blissful. But, do things the right way. You reap a good harvest when you sow a good seed.
Shalom🤎
~Precious Victor Akah